मेरी प्यारी माँ (My Lovely Mother)
आज इस लेख में मदर डे के अवसर पर,मैं अपनी माँ की ज़िंदगी की कुछ अंश के बारे में छोटे से शब्दों में वर्णन करूँगा।
मां के बारे में जितना भी इस लेख़ में लिख दू वह बहुत कम हैं।
मां के शब्दों का कोई मोल नहीं, मां शब्द मन की वह शांति हैं जो एक अकल्पनीय हैं।
मां शब्द की परिभाषा उसकी संतान अपने तरीक़े से अलग-अलग शब्दों में पिरो सकता हैं।
मां के शब्दों का कोई मोल नहीं, मां शब्द मन की वह शांति हैं जो एक अकल्पनीय हैं।
मां शब्द की परिभाषा उसकी संतान अपने तरीक़े से अलग-अलग शब्दों में पिरो सकता हैं।
आज मैं अपनी मां के बारे में कुछ छोटे से शब्दों में बताना चाहता हूं।
मेरी मां का पूरा नाम - बारन बाई पुना लाल बिसेन हैं।
मां का जन्म एक छोटे से गांव में हुआ था।
गांव का नाम - नाग़टोला, जिला - गोंदिया, राज्य महाराष्ट्र।
मेरी मां की पढ़ाई सिर्फ़ दूसरी क्लास तक ही बड़ी मुश्किल में हो पाई थी।
मेरी मां की शादी बचपन में हीं हों गई थी, मां की उम्र उस समय करीबन 4 से 5 साल की रहीं होगी।
उस वक्त कि शादियां भी बड़ी ही कमाल की हुआ करतीं थीं, एक दूसरे को देखे बिना ही शादियां हुआ करती थीं।
इन शादियों को करने का फ़ैसला सिर्फ़ मां बाप को ही नहीं होता था इन शादियों में ख़ास बातें बड़े बुज़ुर्ग और मामाओ कि जिम्मेदारियों पर हुआ करती थीं।
जो उम्र में खेलने कूदने की हुआ करती थीं,उस उम्र में शादी हो जाना मतलब क्या सोच रही होगी! ख़ैर वह उस वक्त की सोच पर ही छोड़ देना चाहिए।
जो उम्र में खेलने कूदने की हुआ करती थीं,उस उम्र में शादी हो जाना मतलब क्या सोच रही होगी! ख़ैर वह उस वक्त की सोच पर ही छोड़ देना चाहिए।
मां के बताए अनुसार जब मां पहली बार अपने ससुराल आई थी, तब मां को यह पता ही नहीं था कि एक बहु को कैसे क्या काम करना चाहिए।
जब मां अपने ससुराल में कुछ दिन रूखी रहीं, तब पापा से कोई बात नहीं की थीं। बात करना छोड़ो एक दूसरे की ओर देखना भी गवारा लगता था। एक दूसरे के सामने अज़नबी जैसे रहते थे।
मां जब खेल रहीं थीं, तब किसी बात पर मां और पापा के बीच लड़ाई हो गई थी, इस लड़ाई में एक दूसरे के बाल तक खींच दिए थे।
मां के बताए अनुसार जब मां की मां ने मां को बताया की यह तेरा पति हैं इनसे लड़ाई झगड़ा नहीं करना चाहिए,तब जाकर मां को पता चला कि ये मेरे पति हैं, ऐहसास का कुछ भी पता नहीं था!
मां के बताए अनुसार जब मां की मां ने मां को बताया की यह तेरा पति हैं इनसे लड़ाई झगड़ा नहीं करना चाहिए,तब जाकर मां को पता चला कि ये मेरे पति हैं, ऐहसास का कुछ भी पता नहीं था!
सोचने वाली बात यह कि जब कोई बच्चे आपस में लड़ाई झगड़ा करते हैं।
तब हम उन्हें बड़े प्यार से समझाते हैं कि बेटा ऐसा नहीं करते! फ़िर भी दूसरे दिन उन्ही बच्चो में लड़ाई शुरू हो जाती हैं? क्यों की वह बचपना होता हैं।
सच तो यह हैं की समय कैसे निकल जाता हैं पता नहीं होता।
मां कहती हैं कि वह समय मेरे जीवन में बहुत ज्यादा परेशानिया और कष्ट भरे दिन थे।
क्यों कि उस वक्त की परिस्थितियां बहुत ही गरीबी की दलदल में ज़िन्दगी कटी हुई थीं।
पापा घर में बड़े होने के कारण जवाबदारी पापा पर ही थीं, लेकिन वह समय परिवार की जवाबदारी संभाल सके वह उम्र पापा की भी नहीं थीं।
हमारा परिवार इतना भी संपन्ना नहीं था की सब कि पूर्ति हों सके। परिवार में उस समय सभी को मिलाकर सात सदस्य हुआ करते थे। इन सात सदस्यों में से सिर्फ़ एक ही कमाने वाला मुख्या था वह मेरे दादा जी थे।
मेरी मां ने अपने ज़िंदगी में बहुत दुःख और कष्ट देखें हैं।
ग़रीबी के हालातों में ऐसे अनेकों दिन आए जब ख़ाली पेट दिन भर मजदूरी करनी पड़ी हैं।
परिवार को संभालते हुए मां के कंधे बहुत मजबूत हो गए हैं।
मां ने अपनी ज़िन्दगी में हमारे लिए ना जाने कितना दर्द और संघर्ष का सामना किया होगा। माँ अपने बच्चो के खातिर अपना सुख चैन सब भूलकर बच्चें सुखी से रह सके इसलिए ना जाने कितना संघर्ष किया होगा।
माँ को अपनी जिंदगी में वो दिन सबसे तकलीफ दायक और कठिन दुःख भरें रहें।
जब माँ को इस बात का पता चला कि पापा को कैंसर हैं यह बात जब मां को पता चला तो वो दिन मां के लिए बड़ा ही तकलीफ़ दायक था।
माँ को अपनी जिंदगी में वो दिन सबसे तकलीफ दायक और कठिन दुःख भरें रहें।
पापा की देख रेख में मां ने अपनी जी जान तक लगा करीबन दी थी। परंतु काफ़ी पैसा ख़र्च होने के बावजूद भी पापा ठिक नहीं हो पा रहे थे। अतः कुछ महीनों बाद पापा चल बसे।
तब मां को ऐसा लगा की उनकी ज़िंदगी में बहुत बड़ा पहाड़ टूट पड़ा गया हैं।
मां अपने ज़िंदगी में टूट ज़रूर गई थीं लेकिन अपने आपको कभी बिखरने नहीं दिया। कहते हैं की वक्त के साथ में सब मरहम भर जाते है।
मां ने कभी हिम्मत नहीं हारी हम सब को अपने आंचल की छाया में और अपनी खून पसीने की शक्ति से हमें पाल पोस कर बड़ा किया हैं।
जितना हो सका अपनी मेहनत से हमें इस काबिल बनाया की ख़ुशी से दो वक्त की रोटी कमाकर प्यार से मां को खिला सके।
जितना हो सका अपनी मेहनत से हमें इस काबिल बनाया की ख़ुशी से दो वक्त की रोटी कमाकर प्यार से मां को खिला सके।
मां का कर्ज उसकी संतान मरते दम तक अदा नहीं कर सकता।
माँ तू ही मेरा गुरु तुझसे मिला सबसे पहले ज्ञान मुझे,माँ तू जिंदगी मेरी, तेरी दी हुई जिंदगी है मेरी।
माँ तेरे आँचल तले जिंदगी है मेरी, माँ तूने इस जहाँ न में सच्चा और झूठा का फ़र्क समझाया हैं।
।। माँ तेरी चरणों को स्पर्श करके कोटि कोटि प्रणाम ।।
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My Lovely Mother
The comfort that comes in the mind after hearing the mother's word is a wonderful one in itself.
Today on the occasion of Mother's Day in this article, I will describe in short words about some parts of my mother's life ....
As much as I can write about the mother in this article, there are very few.
Mother's words have no value, mother's words are a peace of mind that is unimaginable.
The definition of the word mother may merge its offspring in different ways in its own way.
Today I want to tell my mother in a few short words.
My mother's full name is Baran Bai Puna Lal Bisen.
The mother was born in a small village.
Village Name - Nagtola, District - Gondia, State Maharashtra.
My mother's studies were difficult only till the second class.
My mother was married in childhood, the mother's age must have been around 4 to 5 years at that time.
At that time marriages were also amazing, marriages were done without seeing each other.
The decision to do these weddings was not only made by the parents, but in these marriages, special things were done on the responsibilities of the elderly and the maternal uncle.
Who would have been thinking about getting married at that age, which used to be a sport! Well, he should leave it at that time.
According to the mother, when the mother first came to her in-laws, the mother did not know how a daughter-in-law should work.
When the mother stayed a few days at her in-laws' house, she did not talk to her father. Quit talking and looking at each other was also acceptable. We lived like Aznabi in front of each other.
When the mother was playing, there was a fight between the mother and the father on something, in this fight, they even pulled each other's hair.
According to the mother, when the mother's mother told the mother that she is your husband, she should not fight with them, then the mother came to know that she is my husband, nothing was realized!
The thing to think about is when some children quarrel with each other.
Then we kindly explain to them that sons do not do this! However, the fight starts in the same children on the second day? Because they are childish.
The truth is that how time goes by is not known.
Mother says that those times were very troublesome and painful days in my life.
Because the conditions of that time were cut into life in a very poverty morass.
As the father grew up in the house, the responsibility was only on the father, but at that time he could not take care of the family.
Our family did not have enough wealth to fulfill all. At that time there were seven members in the family, including everyone. Out of these seven members, the only earning head was my grandfather.
My mother has seen a lot of grief and sorrow in her life.
In the conditions of poverty, there have been many days when empty stomachs have to be labored all day.
The mother's shoulders have become very strong while handling the family.
Mother must have faced so much pain and struggle for us in her life. Mother could forget all her happiness for the sake of her children, so that the children could live happily, so no one would have struggled so much.
Mother had the most difficult and difficult day in her life.
When the mother came to know that the father had cancer, the day was a great pain for the mother.
Under the care of father, the mother gave up her life. But despite spending a lot of money, Dad was not able to recover. So after a few months, the father passed away.
Then the mother felt that a huge mountain had been broken in her life.
Mother had broken in her life but never let herself fall apart. It is said that all the ointment is filled with time.
Mother never lost courage, raised us all in the shadow of our region and raised us with the power of her blood and sweat.
As much as possible, with our hard work, it made us capable that we could happily earn bread for two times and feed mother with love.
The mother's debt cannot be repaid until her children die.
Mother, you are my master, you got the first knowledge, mother, you are my life, your given life is mine.
Mother is my life under your belt, mother you have explained the difference between true and false in this world.
...... Mother touch your feet and greet you......
As much as I can write about the mother in this article, there are very few.
Mother's words have no value, mother's words are a peace of mind that is unimaginable.
The definition of the word mother may merge its offspring in different ways in its own way.
Today I want to tell my mother in a few short words.
My mother's full name is Baran Bai Puna Lal Bisen.
The mother was born in a small village.
Village Name - Nagtola, District - Gondia, State Maharashtra.
My mother's studies were difficult only till the second class.
My mother was married in childhood, the mother's age must have been around 4 to 5 years at that time.
At that time marriages were also amazing, marriages were done without seeing each other.
The decision to do these weddings was not only made by the parents, but in these marriages, special things were done on the responsibilities of the elderly and the maternal uncle.
Who would have been thinking about getting married at that age, which used to be a sport! Well, he should leave it at that time.
According to the mother, when the mother first came to her in-laws, the mother did not know how a daughter-in-law should work.
When the mother stayed a few days at her in-laws' house, she did not talk to her father. Quit talking and looking at each other was also acceptable. We lived like Aznabi in front of each other.
When the mother was playing, there was a fight between the mother and the father on something, in this fight, they even pulled each other's hair.
According to the mother, when the mother's mother told the mother that she is your husband, she should not fight with them, then the mother came to know that she is my husband, nothing was realized!
The thing to think about is when some children quarrel with each other.
Then we kindly explain to them that sons do not do this! However, the fight starts in the same children on the second day? Because they are childish.
The truth is that how time goes by is not known.
Mother says that those times were very troublesome and painful days in my life.
Because the conditions of that time were cut into life in a very poverty morass.
As the father grew up in the house, the responsibility was only on the father, but at that time he could not take care of the family.
Our family did not have enough wealth to fulfill all. At that time there were seven members in the family, including everyone. Out of these seven members, the only earning head was my grandfather.
My mother has seen a lot of grief and sorrow in her life.
In the conditions of poverty, there have been many days when empty stomachs have to be labored all day.
The mother's shoulders have become very strong while handling the family.
Mother must have faced so much pain and struggle for us in her life. Mother could forget all her happiness for the sake of her children, so that the children could live happily, so no one would have struggled so much.
Mother had the most difficult and difficult day in her life.
When the mother came to know that the father had cancer, the day was a great pain for the mother.
Under the care of father, the mother gave up her life. But despite spending a lot of money, Dad was not able to recover. So after a few months, the father passed away.
Then the mother felt that a huge mountain had been broken in her life.
Mother had broken in her life but never let herself fall apart. It is said that all the ointment is filled with time.
As much as possible, with our hard work, it made us capable that we could happily earn bread for two times and feed mother with love.The mother's debt cannot be repaid until her children die.
Mother, you are my master, you got the first knowledge, mother, you are my life, your given life is mine.
Mother is my life under your belt, mother you have explained the difference between true and false in this world.
...... Mother touch your feet and greet you......
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